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- List some benefits of increasing the number and quality of friendships during adolescent teen years.
The friendships developed in teenage life are usually stronger and more intimate. You will most likely find many similarities between friends in hobbies, thought process, and personal taste.
- What fears do parents face as their teens become more independent and more focused on their relationships with friends as opposed to them(their parents)?
Parents fear that their teens friendships will pull them away from their family, and the parent-teen relationship, and that their friends will give negative peer pressure that it will influence their teen to take part of harmful activities.
- List examples of positive peer pressure.
Since friendships usually spark when two people have similar ideas & values, the pressure could lean towards keeping family and personal values and staying away from harmful activities. It also could pressure them to keep high level of performance in education, family, and work.
- List examples of negative peer pressure.
A teen's friend could easily take part of harmful activities themselves and get addicted to them, then negatively influencing the teen (either silently or verbally) to join them in the activities. It could also pressure them to drop education, leave family, and to not care about work.
- Do you agree with the statement below? Why or why not?
"While it seems that teens are influenced by their peers, parents continue to be the most influential factor in their lives."
I do agree with this statement, because parents are the ones that have raised the child up to teenage years— they have been extremely influential that entire time! And to think that their influence would stop right when they make friends as teens is slightly ridiculous. In fact, most likely the conflicts between teen and parents happen because either the teen feels like his parents expect too much of him or the parents feel the teen isn't reaching the expectations they feel would lead their teen to a good life.
- List and describe 4 strategies to cope with peer pressure.
Parents can train their kids, when young, to know how to react to negative peer pressure by going through scenarios and practicing answers. Parents also can build their child's self-esteem and confidence so that they don't feel the need to do whatever they can to "fit in". Families, schools, and communities can create safe environments for teens to develop their relationships and identities. Finally, parents can respectfully communicate to their teen which friendships they feel harmful or appropriate for them.